Eating Oxford
On Cooking Southern: All You Need is Love…and Chocolate
SOUTHERNISM OF THE WEEK
Up one side and down the other: Descriptive phrase pertaining to how extensively one has explored or considered a situation or topic. Like how chocolate is a necessity of life.
LOVE, LOVE, LOVE… ALL YOU NEED IS LOVE … AND CHOCOLATE
The Beatles had a good idea in their lovely song, All You Need is Love. They just didn’t pursue the thought to its inevitable and logical conclusion.
Love is wonderful, and it makes the world go round, and it is a many splendored thing, and all those other fabulous songs. But let’s face it, a body needs more sustenance than the endorphins released by all that love. A body needs food. And not just any food.
Folks, I’m talking about chocolate. And what better time to have this discussion, than February, when Valentine’s Day and National Chocolate Month have commingled to create an annual $13 billion American consumer market for that delicious, melt-in-your-mouth food once reserved for the gods
As one of countless chocolate-themed jokes points out, there’s no such thing as Chocoholics Anonymous because nobody wants to quit chocolate.
Let me count the ways chocolate is essential to a person’s well being:
- The smell of chocolate increases theta brain waves, triggering relaxation.
- Chocolate is an energy source, containing stimulants theobromine and caffeine —a single chocolate chip is alleged to provide enough energy to walk 150 feet.
- Chocolate contains anti-bacterial properties that protect against tooth decay (if not beefed up with a lot of sugar).
- Chocolate contains antioxidants such as thiamine, riboflavin and phenylethylamine, which possess cancer-fighting properties.
- Daily dark chocolate consumption has anti-inflammatory properties that may reduce heart disease by as much as a third.
You get the picture. Chocolate is a good thing… unless someone consumes 22 pounds at a time, which apparently is the quantity it takes to kill the average person.
The Old Bride subscribes to the Forrest Gump and Peanuts philosophies of life and chocolate, which accommodate the concept that less is more:
“Mama always said, ‘Life is like a box of chocolates – you never know what you’re going to get.’” Forrest Gump (1994)
“All I really need is love, but a little chocolate now and then doesn’t hurt!” Lucy Van Pelt (in Peanuts, by Charles M. Schulz)
Less definitely is “more” in this week’s classic chocolate truffles recipe. Truffles are a chocolate confectionery made with a chocolate “ganache” filling coated or rolled in a chocolate shell, icing, toasted nuts or cocoa powder. Ganache is a French term referring to a glaze, icing, sauce or filling made from two parts chocolate melted in one part cream.
Chocolate truffles have an intense cacao flavor. Hence, the less-is-more.
CLASSIC CHOCOLATE TRUFFLES
Chocolate melts at 93˚F. The secret to good truffles is to coat properly and keep chilled until ready to serve. Whenever working with melted chocolate, it is critical not to overheat it or the chocolate will become grainy. Feel free to roll the truffle balls quickly in melted bittersweet chocolate before coating with cocoa powder. Another tip: I highly recommend adding a kitchen scale to your inventory for the purpose of weighing foodstuffs such as chocolate chips.
1/2 lb (about 1-1/3 c) good bittersweet chocolate such as Ghirardelli
1/2 lb (about 1-1/3 c) good semisweet chocolate such as Hershey’s
1 c heavy whipping cream
1 T hot coffee
1/2 tsp good vanilla extract or 1 tsp Grand Marnier, Amaretto or Chambord
Cocoa powder (unsweetened or sweetened)
1 c (combined) of toasted white sesame seeds and chopped almond slices, optional
Prepare two baking sheets by lining with parchment paper. Chop the bittersweet and semi-sweet chocolates into small bits with a sharp knife. Place them in a metal mixing bowl (3-qt double-boiler size).
Heat the cream on medium in a small saucepan until it just boils. Turn off the heat and allow the cream to sit for 20 seconds. Pour the cream over the chopped chocolate.
With a wire whisk, slowly stir the cream and chocolates together until the chocolate is melted. Whisk in the hot coffee. If bits remain unmelted, carefully place bowl over a larger bowl containing hot tap water and continue whisking until all chocolate bits are melted and the mixture is glossy. Be careful not to splash any water into the chocolate.
Whisk in the vanilla or liqueur until blended. Scrape down sides of the bowl with a soft spatula. Set bowl aside at room temperature for 1 hour.
Scoop chocolate ganache by the rounded scant teaspoon, using back side of a second spoon to form balls and drop onto lined baking sheet. Continue, with balls not touching, until all of the mixture has been dropped. Refrigerate, uncovered, for an hour.
To make optional almond and sesame-seed coating, melt 3 tablespoons of salted butter in a large skillet on medium high heat. Add the unchopped sliced almonds and sesame seeds and turn frequently to coat. The sesame seeds will begin to turn brown as the almonds absorb the butter. Keep turning until light brown and remove from heat. Allow mixture to cool, turning with a large slotted spoon at intervals until room temperature. Loosely chop the almonds.
Place intended truffle coatings in shallow pans or bowls. Line a baking pan with parchment.
Roll each chilled dollop of ganache between both hands to form 1-inch round balls. Use your creativity to finish the truffle by dropping into the coating material and rolling it around to coat completely. Use dry teaspoon to lift coated truffle from the dish and place on the clean lined pan. Continue until all have been coated and positioned, not touching. Cover and refrigerate until ready to serve with tongs. The truffles will keep up to two weeks.
Read more about the history of chocolate as compiled by Laurie Triplette.
Laurie Triplette is a writer, historian and accredited appraiser of fine arts, dedicated to preserving Southern culture and foodways. Author of the award-winning community family cookbook GIMME SOME SUGAR, DARLIN’, and editor of ZEBRA TALES (Tailgating Recipes from the Ladies of the NFLRA), Triplette is a member of the Association of Food Journalists, Southern Foodways Alliance and the Southern Food and Beverage Museum. Check out the GIMME SOME SUGAR, DARLIN’ website and follow Laurie’s food adventures on Facebook and Twitter.
Eating Oxford
The Velvet Ditch brings seafood and steady service to Oxford
A new hot spot offering seafood, bar favorites and steady service in a setting that fits both weeknights and game weekends
OXFORD, Miss. — The Velvet Ditch has become a regular stop for people looking for seafood plates, sandwiches and a sports-bar setting near the Oxford Square.
Its menu leans toward familiar items, and the service is one of the reasons diners say they return. The restaurant sits on South Lamar Boulevard, close enough to campus and the Square to draw steady traffic on most nights.
The interior features televisions, open tables and a bar that stays busy during major sporting events. Staff members move between areas at a quick pace.
A visitor can see at a glance that the restaurant is built to handle crowds during football weekends or spring baseball series.
The menu includes catfish, shrimp, burgers and pasta dishes. One food-travel site highlighted the “Catfish with Grits” and the “Lobster Mac and Cheese” as standout items.
Another review praised the staff, noting that a server “went above and beyond to ensure guests had a memorable experience.” Those comments help show why service is often mentioned in accounts from diners.
Guests also mention that the kitchen keeps wait times short. Even on harder nights, food tends to reach tables in a steady rhythm. For people on a schedule, that can be a deciding factor.
Some patrons report that visiting in the early evening brings a quieter atmosphere. Later hours often mean a louder bar setting, especially during games or campus events.
One commenter on social media wrote that the place was “packed” but said staff and management stayed active and remained helpful. That reflects a common pattern in local feedback.
The porch and outdoor seating add to the appeal, especially during fall and spring weather. The spot offers extra room for groups and keeps the dining room from feeling crowded when traffic picks up.
For diners seeking a consistent seafood option that works for friends, families or visitors, The Velvet Ditch meets those expectations without trying to be a fine-dining restaurant.
Most guests seem to accept it as a casual place where they can get reliable favorites.
Menu impressions and pacing
Portion sizes fall on the larger side. Some customers report leaving with leftovers, which adds value for a college-town audience.
Pricing falls within the range expected for a restaurant near the Square, though the seafood dishes push slightly higher than the sandwiches.
Most tables seem to order at least one fried dish. For people choosing wings or fried seafood, asking about crispness is a reasonable step.
One local blog gave the wings a 6.8 out of 10, citing texture but praising the seasoning and service.
It is not unusual for fried items to vary between busy and slow shifts, and guests sometimes adjust their orders based on earlier visits.
Pasta selections, including shrimp-based dishes, tend to draw positive remarks for flavor.
Several diners have shared online comments praising the seasoning balance, which can be harder to maintain in larger kitchens on crowded nights.
Service remains one of the restaurant’s strengths. Reports mention hosts greeting guests quickly and servers keeping check-ins consistent without becoming intrusive.
These basic steps stand out in a setting that often juggles game-day crowds.
The bar area typically fills first. Guests wanting a quieter space may choose tables near the front or the patio. Staff usually offer guidance on where noise levels are lower.
Visitors should expect a mixed crowd. Students, families, alumni and travelers pass through during busy weekends.
The range creates a social atmosphere without shifting the restaurant’s identity into a full bar.
When the pace picks up, the kitchen maintains a workmanlike rhythm. Though the menu is wide enough to challenge any staff during peak hours, food tends to be steady.
This consistency is part of why the restaurant keeps its place among Oxford’s regular dining choices.
Final thoughts
The Velvet Ditch presents itself as a casual dining option that fits Oxford’s blend of campus life and regional visitors.
Diners visiting early in the evening, before louder crowds settle in, often get a more relaxed experience. Later hours tilt toward a sports-bar feel, but service remains attentive.
The restaurant’s strengths lie in its steady approach. It does not try to compete with upscale dining rooms in town.
Instead, it focuses on familiar dishes, efficient service and a setting that suits both weeknight diners and visitors in town for a game.
For people seeking seafood or bar favorites near the Square, The Velvet Ditch offers a dependable choice.
Key takeaways
-
The Velvet Ditch delivers steady service and familiar seafood-and-bar dishes near the Oxford Square.
-
Early visits offer quieter meals, while later hours bring louder sports-bar energy.
-
Portions are large, and service remains a strong point even on busy nights.
Eating Oxford
Captain Morgan’s Pirate Ship Grounds on the Oxford Square for Three Days of Swashbuckling Fun
Captain Morgan’s Pirate Ship drops anchor in Oxford Square for a three-day rum-filled adventure supporting local arts programs.
The Oxford Square is about to get a taste of the high seas as Captain Morgan’s legendary Pirate Ship makes landfall for three days of rum, revelry, and community celebration. The nearly 40-foot vessel will drop anchor right in the heart of downtown, inviting residents and visitors alike to climb aboard for photos, exploration, and a chance to join the pirate crew—if they dare.
The festivities kick off Thursday, November 13, with the Captain Morgan Pirate Pub Crawl, benefitting the Yoknapatawpha Arts Council. The crawl begins with a 7:30 p.m. check-in at The Powerhouse Community Arts Center, where participants will experience the Captain’s Tailgate Tour Ship and enjoy a signature cocktail.
From there, crews will sail through town—stopping at Moe’s Penny Bar, Back Nine, Quack’s, and The Blind Pig Pub—collecting treasure map stamps, stories, and plenty of pirate memories along the way. The night culminates with a grand drawing for a Captain Morgan Yeti Cooler, stocked with spirits and exclusive gear.
The event is free, with donations and drink proceeds directly supporting the Arts Council’s free community arts programs throughout Oxford.
Participants are encouraged to arrive in full pirate regalia for extra raffle entries and bragging rights.
So grab your eyepatch, raise your glass, and prepare to set sail without ever leaving the Square. The Captain Morgan Pirate Ship may be grounded—but the adventure, and the cause it supports, will lift everyone’s spirits.
To learn more, visit www.oxfordarts.com.
Eating Oxford
Lenora’s in Oxford delivers solid Southern fare with attentive service
At Lenora’s Restaurant in Oxford, Mississippi the seafood is fresh, the staff attentive, and dishes like rib eye and catfish stand out
OXFORD, Miss. — At Lenora’s Restaurant in the heart of Oxford, Mississippi, quality doesn’t come from gimmicks or gimmickry.
It’s built from consistency, craft, and the quiet confidence of a kitchen that knows its identity of Southern elegance, balanced by seafood staples and a touch of upscale polish.
A first impression that lasts
Situated at 309 North Lamar Boulevard, just steps away from the Square, Lenora’s manages to create a dining experience that feels elevated without being exclusive.
Soft lighting, rustic wood accents, and an uncluttered layout give the space a comfortable rhythm.
There’s a sense of refinement that doesn’t need to announce itself. It simply exists, welcoming guests into a dining room that suits both quiet conversation and shared celebration.
Tables are well-spaced, and the pace is deliberately calm. From the moment diners walk in, staff are attentive but never overbearing, allowing the experience to unfold at its own tempo.
A menu with depth and purpose
The menu at Lenora’s blends Southern influence with coastal finesse.
The star attractions often lean toward seafood—dishes like the seared catfish Lenora and shrimp pasta Lenora exemplify the restaurant’s commitment to familiar flavors delivered with thoughtful precision.
These dishes arrive hot, well-seasoned, and plated with attention that suggests pride behind the scenes.
Steaks are another strong point. The rib-eye, in particular, arrives with a sear that holds its juices and a side of smashed potatoes that achieves that rare feat of being both comforting and composed.
The mixed grill offerings allow guests to sample a little bit of everything—surf and turf combinations that work in harmony.
Appetizers such as the jumbo lump crab cake and the beef tenderloin skewer serve as a warm welcome to the meal. Meanwhile, seasonal salads, grilled vegetables, and expertly prepared greens round out the plate without feeling like afterthoughts.
Service that elevates the experience
While food often gets top billing in restaurant reviews, the service at Lenora’s deserves its own recognition. Guests routinely highlight the staff’s friendliness and professionalism.
In one recent example, a reviewer praised server Emily S. for being “calm, friendly, and super attentive,” even during a particularly busy evening.
That level of consistency isn’t an accident. The staff—from the front-of-house to the kitchen—operate with clear communication and a shared understanding of what makes for a great dining experience: timing, warmth, and a sense of ease.
Even when the restaurant is bustling on weekends or special occasions, the flow remains steady. Courses arrive at the right intervals, water glasses stay full, and special requests are handled without hesitation.
Finishing strong with dessert and drinks
When it comes to the final course, Lenora’s makes a strong case for lingering just a little longer.
Bread pudding with white chocolate sauce is a standout, offering a warm, rich bite without becoming overly heavy.
Other dessert selections rotate seasonally, giving repeat diners something new to look forward to.
The bar program includes handcrafted cocktails, a curated wine list, and premium spirits, creating an opportunity to extend the evening in relaxed fashion.
Whether it’s a classic old fashioned or a house-infused martini, the drink selection pairs naturally with the pace and style of the meal.
Consistency and craft at the center
Lenora’s isn’t trying to be trendy. It isn’t chasing viral moments or social media flash. What it offers instead is something harder to replicate: a sense of place.
A restaurant that knows who it is, knows what it does well, and delivers on that promise night after night.
It’s this combination of skill in the kitchen, warmth at the table, and ease in the atmosphere that makes Lenora’s a cornerstone of Oxford’s dining scene.
Whether it’s a dinner out with family, a date night, or a business conversation over a meal, Lenora’s fits the moment.
Location and hours of operation
-
Address: 309 North Lamar Boulevard, Oxford, Mississippi 38655
-
Phone: (662) 236‑1144
-
Hours:
-
Monday, Tuesday, Thursday: 5:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.
-
Wednesday, Friday, Saturday: 5:00 p.m. – 10:30 p.m.
-
Sunday: Closed
-
Note: On major event weekends, opening hours may shift to 4:00 p.m.
-
3 key takeaways
-
Southern seafood done right — Signature dishes like the seared catfish and shrimp pasta showcase flavor without overcomplicating.
-
Service with care — Staff are consistently described as professional, warm, and attentive, contributing to the calm, composed environment.
-
Refined but relaxed — The space strikes a balance between casual comfort and upscale polish, making it accessible to all types of diners.
-
Eating Oxford12 years ago
Food & Drink: What’s Hot and What’s Not in 2015
-
Arts & Entertainment9 years ago
EatingOxford: 3 Steps to Success at 3 Blind Wines
-
Eating Oxford11 years ago
HottyToddy Tailgate: Crescent Rolls 5 Ways
-
Eating Oxford4 years agoOxford restaurants adjust to inflation, other pressures by raising prices
-
Eating Oxford13 years ago
My Michelle’s: Personal Chefs
-
Eating Oxford4 years agoLocally Driven and Focused to Serve from Day to Night: Good Day Café & Bar Muse
-
Eating Oxford4 years ago“I am from here”: Snackbar Chef Vishwesh Bhatt celebrates new cookbook
-
Eating Oxford10 years ago
Oxford Stories: Chicken on a Stick Is an Oxford Tradition

