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On Cooking Southern: Memorial Day Marks the Start of Summertime Feasting
SOUTHERNISM OF THE WEEK
Bite the bullet: Dating back to primitive medical conditions during the Civil War, the expression means to toughen up and endure the situation without complaining… like all residents of the Magnolia State who can’t leave town to escape the heat of summer.
Memorial Day is a very special date for us Americans. It’s the secular, Federal holiday most of us target for our Spring deadlines. It’s the holiday that workers know will enable them to make it through another fiscal quarter without total burnout.
Memorial Day marks the unofficial start of summer, coinciding with the end of the school year for many communities. It’s one of seven calendar dates flagged for retail sales extravaganzas by the Mad Men of advertising. It’s the official safe date for planting the last of the summer garden.
But in fact, Memorial Day has a somber reason for existence: It is the date for commemorating all soldiers who have died in service to our country.
The holiday originated during the Civil War, when women on both sides of the Mason Dixon line began decorating the graves of fallen soldiers. By the end of the war that claimed more than 600,000 lives, communities in both the North and South were holding Decoration Days in May to commemorate the war dead.
The most widely publicized such event was held in Charleston, SC, on May 1, 1865, when more than 10,000 residents – including 3,000 children of freedmen of color, along with teachers and missionaries – gathered to clean up and lay flowers at the unmarked graves of almost 300 Union prisoners of war at the former Hampton Park Race Course. The event was covered in national newspapers.
By 1869, more than 300 communities in 27 states were holding late May Decoration Days to commemorate war dead. In 1866, Columbus, Mississippi, was one of the first Southern communities to commemorate Decoration Day by laying flowers on the graves of both Confederate AND Union soldiers.
World War I signaled a shift from emphasis on Civil War soldiers’ service to honoring all soldiers who died in service. But the name didn’t officially change from Decoration Day to Memorial Day until after World War II. It was declared the official holiday name as a Federal holiday in 1967. The date was changed from May 30 to the last Monday in May in 1968. All 50 states grudgingly shifted to the Monday celebration by the mid-1970s.
Memorial Day is not to be confused with Veterans Day, which commemorates all soldiers who served in wars, coinciding with the World War I Armistice and Remembrance Days.
HIT A CASUAL NOTE WITH STACKS OF SWEETS AND SAVORIES
Our turbulent Spring weather seems to have settled early into the fires of Summer. But we Southerners just use this as an excuse to get a head start on our grilling and barbecue-ing and picnicking. Whether celebrating in the back yard or at our favorite beach, lake, river or mountain sites, we love our summertime get-togethers.
Memorial Day is the annual holiday launch pad for our summertime fun, when the crowd food is all about making life easy, American style. So what better way to get in the spirit than by preparing layered salad and a summertime twist on everybody’s favorite American comfort food: mac n’cheese.
Who says the tomatoes HAVE to be in the salad, or that the strawberries HAVE to be in the dessert? And what’s to keep a savvy cook from prepping molten chocolate lava cake AHEAD … in jumbo cupcake liners?
STACK SALAD with STRAWBERRY VINAIGRETTE
Feel free to improvise the contents of this stacked salad. Note that there are no tomatoes in this variation (we used them in the hot casserole instead). But it would be just as tasty with chopped tomatoes and cucumbers. And instead of peanuts, pecans, walnuts or sunflower seeds, we added chickpeas for the protein-laden crunch. Use either a 9-by-13-inch dish (serves 8-10), or an 11-by-9-inch dish (serves 6).
Spring mix greens or chopped romaine lettuce
Kernels of corn cut from 2 boiled ears
1 c of canned chickpeas, rinsed and drained
Cubed fresh mozzarella
Green onions
Four sweet mini peppers, seeded and sliced into thin rings
Dill sprigs
1 c sliced strawberries
2 T white granulated sugar
5 T white balsamic white wine vinegar
1 tsp kosher salt
1/4 tsp black pepper
1/3 c extra virgin olive oil
Layer the first 6 ingredients in listed order, spreading evenly in each layer. Combine strawberries and sugar in a bowl. Add vinegar, salt and pepper and puree either in a blender or with immersion blender stick until smooth. While blending, add olive oil in a slow steady stream, until emulsified. Drizzle over salad. Refrigerate leftover vinaigrette covered, up to a week.
BBT MAC’N CHEESE
This recipe rates in my all-time winners category. It hints at Italian roots without overpowering the tastebuds.
16 oz (4 c) large elbow noodles
4 slicing tomatoes, two chopped and two sliced
4 thick slices of bacon, crisp cooked and crumbled or chopped
1 c coarse-chopped basil leaves, plus 9 whole leaves
4 c whole milk
4 c grated sharp cheddar, reserve 1/2 c
8 T salted butter
8 T all-purpose flour
1 tsp kosher salt
1/4 tsp ground black pepper
1 c crushed butter-garlic croutons (from a 5-oz pkg)
3/4 to 1 c shaved Parmesan
Preheat oven to 350˚F. Lightly grease a 9-by-13-inch baking pan with nonstick cooking spray (I use the olive oil version).
Cook noodles in lightly salted water until al dente — do NOT overcook. Drain and set aside in a large mixing bowl.
Melt butter in saucepan over medium heat. Whisk in the flour, a tablespoon at a time until blended with no lumps. Continue stirring for one to two minutes until it begins to thicken and darken slightly. Slowly add milk, whisking, to blend completely. Continue simmering, whisking at regular intervals, for about 3 minutes, until mixture begins to thicken.
Add the cheese, stirring until it completely melts and blends. Reduce heat to low, add the basil and cook, stirring, for another 3 to 4 minutes.
Remove sauce from heat and stir in the chopped tomatoes and crumbled bacon. Pour over the noodles. Toss to coat. Add reserved cheese and toss again.
Ladle mixture into the baking pan. Sprinkle with most of the shaved Parmesan. Position 9 tomato slices in three rows and top each slice with a basil leaf. Sprinkle with crushed croutons and remaining shaved Parmesan. Bake 20 to 25 minutes until bubbly.
MOLTEN LAVA CUPCAKES
I adapted this recipe from Chris Morocco’s version in “Bon Appetit” magazine. The ganache filling is what forms the “molten” chocolate. It is the classic ganache recipe that we all use for filling or for making truffles. The cake itself is delicious; how could it NOT be, incorporating brown sugar with melted bittersweet chocolate and eggs? Instead of a cake pan or ramekins, I used a jumbo muffin tin with doubled jumbo cupcake liners. The recipe is perfect for six jumbo cupcakes and may be made ahead.
1/4 c heavy whipping cream
7 oz bittersweet chocolate, divided 2 and 5, and each part chopped
6 T salted butter, plus more for the cupcake liners
White granulated sugar
3 large eggs
1/3 c light brown sugar
1 tsp vanilla extract
3 T all-purpose flour
1/2 tsp kosher salt
Preheat oven to 425˚F. Line a 6-slot jumbo muffin tin with jumbo muffin liners. Grease bottoms of liners with butter and sprinkle each with about 1/4 tsp sugar to coat.
To make the ganache filling, place 2 ounces of chopped chocolate in a small bowl. Heat cream in a small saucepan until it begins to simmer, rolling the pan to prevent scorching around the edges. When the cream is hot to touch, pour over the chocolate. Allow to sit for about a minute then stir vigorously with a spatula until the chocolate has completely melted and blended. Refrigerate for at least one hour until firm.
Combine 6 tablespoons of butter and 5 ounces of chopped chocolate in a double boiler bowl set over saucepan of low-simmering water. NOTE: To prevent chocolate from seizing, be sure bowl doesn’t rest IN the water. Allow to sit for about a minute to heat the butter and chocolate, then stir with a spatula until completely blended. Remove bowl from the saucepan.
While chocolate is resting, beat eggs and brown sugar in a mixing bowl on high until mixture triples in volume. I used a hand mixer in order to better control access to all of the bowl contents. It takes about 3 minutes to achieve proper volume.
Turn mixer to medium and scrape in the melted chocolate, beating until completely blended. Fold in the flour and salt until smooth.
Divide the batter in half. Ladle about 1/3 cup into each cupcake liner. Scoop a rounded teaspoon of ganache into the center of each. Cover each ganache-filled cupcake with remaining batter. Bake on center rack for about 15 minutes, until tops are firm and beginning to crack. Remove and serve immediately with vanilla ice cream, or allow to cool and store until ready to serve.
Laurie Triplette is a writer, historian and accredited appraiser of fine arts, dedicated to preserving Southern culture and foodways. Author of the award-winning community family cookbook GIMME SOME SUGAR, DARLIN’, and editor of ZEBRA TALES (Tailgating Recipes from the Ladies of the NFLRA), Triplette is a member of the Association of Food Journalists, Southern Foodways Alliance and the Southern Food and Beverage Museum. Check out the GIMME SOME SUGAR, DARLIN’ website and follow Laurie’s food adventures on Facebook and Twitter.
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The Velvet Ditch brings seafood and steady service to Oxford
A new hot spot offering seafood, bar favorites and steady service in a setting that fits both weeknights and game weekends
OXFORD, Miss. — The Velvet Ditch has become a regular stop for people looking for seafood plates, sandwiches and a sports-bar setting near the Oxford Square.
Its menu leans toward familiar items, and the service is one of the reasons diners say they return. The restaurant sits on South Lamar Boulevard, close enough to campus and the Square to draw steady traffic on most nights.
The interior features televisions, open tables and a bar that stays busy during major sporting events. Staff members move between areas at a quick pace.
A visitor can see at a glance that the restaurant is built to handle crowds during football weekends or spring baseball series.
The menu includes catfish, shrimp, burgers and pasta dishes. One food-travel site highlighted the “Catfish with Grits” and the “Lobster Mac and Cheese” as standout items.
Another review praised the staff, noting that a server “went above and beyond to ensure guests had a memorable experience.” Those comments help show why service is often mentioned in accounts from diners.
Guests also mention that the kitchen keeps wait times short. Even on harder nights, food tends to reach tables in a steady rhythm. For people on a schedule, that can be a deciding factor.
Some patrons report that visiting in the early evening brings a quieter atmosphere. Later hours often mean a louder bar setting, especially during games or campus events.
One commenter on social media wrote that the place was “packed” but said staff and management stayed active and remained helpful. That reflects a common pattern in local feedback.
The porch and outdoor seating add to the appeal, especially during fall and spring weather. The spot offers extra room for groups and keeps the dining room from feeling crowded when traffic picks up.
For diners seeking a consistent seafood option that works for friends, families or visitors, The Velvet Ditch meets those expectations without trying to be a fine-dining restaurant.
Most guests seem to accept it as a casual place where they can get reliable favorites.
Menu impressions and pacing
Portion sizes fall on the larger side. Some customers report leaving with leftovers, which adds value for a college-town audience.
Pricing falls within the range expected for a restaurant near the Square, though the seafood dishes push slightly higher than the sandwiches.
Most tables seem to order at least one fried dish. For people choosing wings or fried seafood, asking about crispness is a reasonable step.
One local blog gave the wings a 6.8 out of 10, citing texture but praising the seasoning and service.
It is not unusual for fried items to vary between busy and slow shifts, and guests sometimes adjust their orders based on earlier visits.
Pasta selections, including shrimp-based dishes, tend to draw positive remarks for flavor.
Several diners have shared online comments praising the seasoning balance, which can be harder to maintain in larger kitchens on crowded nights.
Service remains one of the restaurant’s strengths. Reports mention hosts greeting guests quickly and servers keeping check-ins consistent without becoming intrusive.
These basic steps stand out in a setting that often juggles game-day crowds.
The bar area typically fills first. Guests wanting a quieter space may choose tables near the front or the patio. Staff usually offer guidance on where noise levels are lower.
Visitors should expect a mixed crowd. Students, families, alumni and travelers pass through during busy weekends.
The range creates a social atmosphere without shifting the restaurant’s identity into a full bar.
When the pace picks up, the kitchen maintains a workmanlike rhythm. Though the menu is wide enough to challenge any staff during peak hours, food tends to be steady.
This consistency is part of why the restaurant keeps its place among Oxford’s regular dining choices.
Final thoughts
The Velvet Ditch presents itself as a casual dining option that fits Oxford’s blend of campus life and regional visitors.
Diners visiting early in the evening, before louder crowds settle in, often get a more relaxed experience. Later hours tilt toward a sports-bar feel, but service remains attentive.
The restaurant’s strengths lie in its steady approach. It does not try to compete with upscale dining rooms in town.
Instead, it focuses on familiar dishes, efficient service and a setting that suits both weeknight diners and visitors in town for a game.
For people seeking seafood or bar favorites near the Square, The Velvet Ditch offers a dependable choice.
Key takeaways
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The Velvet Ditch delivers steady service and familiar seafood-and-bar dishes near the Oxford Square.
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Early visits offer quieter meals, while later hours bring louder sports-bar energy.
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Portions are large, and service remains a strong point even on busy nights.
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Captain Morgan’s Pirate Ship Grounds on the Oxford Square for Three Days of Swashbuckling Fun
Captain Morgan’s Pirate Ship drops anchor in Oxford Square for a three-day rum-filled adventure supporting local arts programs.
The Oxford Square is about to get a taste of the high seas as Captain Morgan’s legendary Pirate Ship makes landfall for three days of rum, revelry, and community celebration. The nearly 40-foot vessel will drop anchor right in the heart of downtown, inviting residents and visitors alike to climb aboard for photos, exploration, and a chance to join the pirate crew—if they dare.
The festivities kick off Thursday, November 13, with the Captain Morgan Pirate Pub Crawl, benefitting the Yoknapatawpha Arts Council. The crawl begins with a 7:30 p.m. check-in at The Powerhouse Community Arts Center, where participants will experience the Captain’s Tailgate Tour Ship and enjoy a signature cocktail.
From there, crews will sail through town—stopping at Moe’s Penny Bar, Back Nine, Quack’s, and The Blind Pig Pub—collecting treasure map stamps, stories, and plenty of pirate memories along the way. The night culminates with a grand drawing for a Captain Morgan Yeti Cooler, stocked with spirits and exclusive gear.
The event is free, with donations and drink proceeds directly supporting the Arts Council’s free community arts programs throughout Oxford.
Participants are encouraged to arrive in full pirate regalia for extra raffle entries and bragging rights.
So grab your eyepatch, raise your glass, and prepare to set sail without ever leaving the Square. The Captain Morgan Pirate Ship may be grounded—but the adventure, and the cause it supports, will lift everyone’s spirits.
To learn more, visit www.oxfordarts.com.
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Lenora’s in Oxford delivers solid Southern fare with attentive service
At Lenora’s Restaurant in Oxford, Mississippi the seafood is fresh, the staff attentive, and dishes like rib eye and catfish stand out
OXFORD, Miss. — At Lenora’s Restaurant in the heart of Oxford, Mississippi, quality doesn’t come from gimmicks or gimmickry.
It’s built from consistency, craft, and the quiet confidence of a kitchen that knows its identity of Southern elegance, balanced by seafood staples and a touch of upscale polish.
A first impression that lasts
Situated at 309 North Lamar Boulevard, just steps away from the Square, Lenora’s manages to create a dining experience that feels elevated without being exclusive.
Soft lighting, rustic wood accents, and an uncluttered layout give the space a comfortable rhythm.
There’s a sense of refinement that doesn’t need to announce itself. It simply exists, welcoming guests into a dining room that suits both quiet conversation and shared celebration.
Tables are well-spaced, and the pace is deliberately calm. From the moment diners walk in, staff are attentive but never overbearing, allowing the experience to unfold at its own tempo.
A menu with depth and purpose
The menu at Lenora’s blends Southern influence with coastal finesse.
The star attractions often lean toward seafood—dishes like the seared catfish Lenora and shrimp pasta Lenora exemplify the restaurant’s commitment to familiar flavors delivered with thoughtful precision.
These dishes arrive hot, well-seasoned, and plated with attention that suggests pride behind the scenes.
Steaks are another strong point. The rib-eye, in particular, arrives with a sear that holds its juices and a side of smashed potatoes that achieves that rare feat of being both comforting and composed.
The mixed grill offerings allow guests to sample a little bit of everything—surf and turf combinations that work in harmony.
Appetizers such as the jumbo lump crab cake and the beef tenderloin skewer serve as a warm welcome to the meal. Meanwhile, seasonal salads, grilled vegetables, and expertly prepared greens round out the plate without feeling like afterthoughts.
Service that elevates the experience
While food often gets top billing in restaurant reviews, the service at Lenora’s deserves its own recognition. Guests routinely highlight the staff’s friendliness and professionalism.
In one recent example, a reviewer praised server Emily S. for being “calm, friendly, and super attentive,” even during a particularly busy evening.
That level of consistency isn’t an accident. The staff—from the front-of-house to the kitchen—operate with clear communication and a shared understanding of what makes for a great dining experience: timing, warmth, and a sense of ease.
Even when the restaurant is bustling on weekends or special occasions, the flow remains steady. Courses arrive at the right intervals, water glasses stay full, and special requests are handled without hesitation.
Finishing strong with dessert and drinks
When it comes to the final course, Lenora’s makes a strong case for lingering just a little longer.
Bread pudding with white chocolate sauce is a standout, offering a warm, rich bite without becoming overly heavy.
Other dessert selections rotate seasonally, giving repeat diners something new to look forward to.
The bar program includes handcrafted cocktails, a curated wine list, and premium spirits, creating an opportunity to extend the evening in relaxed fashion.
Whether it’s a classic old fashioned or a house-infused martini, the drink selection pairs naturally with the pace and style of the meal.
Consistency and craft at the center
Lenora’s isn’t trying to be trendy. It isn’t chasing viral moments or social media flash. What it offers instead is something harder to replicate: a sense of place.
A restaurant that knows who it is, knows what it does well, and delivers on that promise night after night.
It’s this combination of skill in the kitchen, warmth at the table, and ease in the atmosphere that makes Lenora’s a cornerstone of Oxford’s dining scene.
Whether it’s a dinner out with family, a date night, or a business conversation over a meal, Lenora’s fits the moment.
Location and hours of operation
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Address: 309 North Lamar Boulevard, Oxford, Mississippi 38655
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Phone: (662) 236‑1144
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Hours:
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Monday, Tuesday, Thursday: 5:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.
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Wednesday, Friday, Saturday: 5:00 p.m. – 10:30 p.m.
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Sunday: Closed
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Note: On major event weekends, opening hours may shift to 4:00 p.m.
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3 key takeaways
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Southern seafood done right — Signature dishes like the seared catfish and shrimp pasta showcase flavor without overcomplicating.
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Service with care — Staff are consistently described as professional, warm, and attentive, contributing to the calm, composed environment.
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Refined but relaxed — The space strikes a balance between casual comfort and upscale polish, making it accessible to all types of diners.
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