Eating Oxford
On Cooking Southern: Fried Green Tomatoes and Okra

By Laurie Triplette
ldtriplette@aol.com
Southernism of the Week:
That really fries(d) my grits: Something has got me all het up … in a bad way. Think being steamed with agitation about something, or having your goose cooked or your ticket punched… There’s no return.
WHISTLE UP SOME FRIED GREEN TOMATOES AND OKRA
Here we are, deep into mid summer in the South, which is like no other place on earth. If I were in Charleston (SC), I’d be singing that summertime song by Gershwin, even though we all know that the living in summertime is NOT easy.
But it IS magical.
It’s when the cicadas tune up their cacophonous music at dusk and a few fireflies, having survived their annual May-June get-togethers, twinkle like fairy lights among the trees. The air is so heavy with moisture that it feels like floating rain, and the light breeze carries intoxicating aromas of honeysuckle, magnolias and gardenias, underlaid with not-so-lovely notes of eau de o’possum, skunk, raccoon and armadillo.
That’s the South for you: Complicated.
It’s that time of year when the land rewards us just for being here, and for our farmers’ hard work, reminding us why we endure the region’s climactic extremes. The corn is ripe, the homegrown tomatoes are plentiful and the okra is tender.
I could wax poetic (and have) about corn on the cob and tomato sandwiches, and about grilled okra pods and tomatoes-and-corn-and-okra succotash.
But frankly, my dears, I’d rather discuss a little side dish that calls on our Southern culinary skills with the cast iron skillet or the deep fryer. I’m referring to fried green tomatoes.
One might consider it a shame to pluck green tomatoes from the vine, when we know how succulent they taste upon achieving full vine-ripened juiciness. However, at some point every summer, our baskets runneth over with ripe tomatoes, and it’s almost mandatory to slow the flow by picking a few green ones.
Once a person dips her toe into the grease-bottomed pond of fried tomatoes, one has to wade in deeper and scoop up some fried okra … which just about everybody loves, even if they can’t stand the thought of boiling the stuff.
The techniques for frying up green tomatoes and okra are pretty darned close. With both dishes, there are common considerations. As in life itself, our every choice affects the outcome.
How thick do we slice the tomatoes, 1/4-inch thick or 1/2-inch thick? (The okra is standard at about a half inch.) Do we coat the slices in an egg mixture, with milk or with buttermilk? Do we add hot sauce and seasonings such as Creole seasoning, garlic, or paprika, or simply add salt and pepper?
Do we bread the slices with flour AND cornmeal, or only with cornmeal? And which type do we use — self-rising or plain? Do we get really fancy and throw in some breadcrumbs or (gasp) Panko?
Do we fry the maters and okra in shortening or vegetable oil, or do we use old-fashioned bacon grease? Do we use the cast iron skillet, or do we go all urban and use the deep fryer?
Whatever choices we make in frying our green tomatoes and okra, the results are sure to be favorable, as long as we keep the grease hot.
FRIED GREEN TOMATOES
It’s perfectly acceptable to fry the tomatoes dredged only in seasoned flour or seasoned cornmeal. It’s also acceptable to dip the slices into the egg mixture before dredging in either flour or cornmeal; this creates more of a batter coating. Some cooks don’t even dip into the egg mixture if the tomatoes are particularly moist. It all depends on the tomatoes and the cook as to what works during the moment! Salting the tomato slices and letting them “rest” draws out excess moisture that would otherwise prevent the batter from staying put in the hot grease.
4 large completely green tomatoes
2 eggs
1 c whole buttermilk
3 splashes of Tabasco or hot sauce of choice
1-1/2 c all-purpose flour
1 tsp garlic powder or Creole seasoning, optional
1-1/2 c self-rising cornmeal
1/2 c bread crumbs, saltine cracker crumbs, or Panko, optional
2 tsp kosher salt
1/4 tsp fresh ground black pepper
Vegetable oil or shortening
1/4 c bacon drippings (for flavor)
Slice tomatoes 1/4 to 1/2 inch thick, to personal taste. Place on racks; sprinkle a small amount of salt on both sides to draw out excess moisture. Allow to sit about 15 minutes.
Whisk egg and milk together in a medium bowl, and sir in the Tabasco. Scoop flour into a large shallow dish and stir in the optional garlic powder or Creole seasoning. Combine cornmeal, optional breadcrumbs, and pepper in another shallow dish.
Dredge the tomatoes in flour to coat then dip into the egg mixture. Shake off excess and dredge in breadcrumb mixture, pressing down on the crumbs to completely coat. Carefully hold by the edges (or use a fork) and place back on rack for about 15 minutes.
Heat oil or shortening to about 350˚F in a skillet or deep fryer, adding enough to have at least a half inch depth of oil. Add the bacon drippings for flavor. Allow to heat fully before frying the tomatoes.
Using a fork to avoid losing any of the coating, carefully drop 4 to 5 tomato slices in the heated oil, not touching. Allow to brown on one side, about 3 minutes in skillet, perhaps less in deep fryer. Flip in skillet and repeat (if in deep fryer, they will float when done). Remove when golden, before they get too dark. Carefully remove to paper towels on a rack to drain and sprinkle lightly with salt.
Serve while hot with a dipping sauce such as Spicy Remoulade, Comeback Sauce or Ranch Dressing.
FRIED OKRA
Too much flour will result in hard fried okra. Too much cornmeal will make it difficult for the coating to remain on the okra during frying. Skillet-fried okra results are more “homemade” in appearance than deep-fried okra, but can be tastier, when fried just below the point of burning it. Deep frying tends to seal the coating onto the okra. Be like Goldilocks and experiment until you find the combination that is just right!
4 c of okra, sliced about 1/2-inch
2 eggs
1 c whole buttermilk
3 splashes of Tabasco
1/2 to 3/4 c of all-purpose flour
1-2 T Creole seasoning
1-1/2 c self-rising cornmeal
1/4 tsp fresh ground black pepper
Vegetable oil or shortening
1/4 c bacon drippings
2 tsp kosher salt
Whisk egg and milk together in a medium bowl. Whisk in the Tabasco. Scoop flour into a large shallow dish and mix in the Creole seasoning. Combine cornmeal, and pepper in another shallow dish.
Dredge the okra in flour to coat then drop into the egg mixture. Fold with a knife to coat all the pieces. Lift out with a fork and drop into the cornmeal mixture. The okra might be gummy. Keep folding and pour remaining flour into the dish. Gently continue to fold until all the okra is completely coated and not gummy.
Heat oil or shortening to 350-360˚F. Drop coated okra into the hot oil, carefully not crowding it. Fry for almost 10 minutes (or less, depending on heat of the oil). Turn once with wide slotted spoon and continue frying about 5 more minutes until evenly browned and floating (in deep fryer). Remove to a paper towel-lined pan to drain. Sprinkle with salt. Fried okra may be kept warm in an oven preheated to 275˚F .
WHERE IN OXFORD TO GET FRIED GREEN TOMATOES AND/OR FRIED OKRA
Ajax Diner (fried okra – lunch only)
118 Courthouse Square
Oxford, MS 38655
662-232-8880
Boure (serves a fried green tomato salad)
110 Courthouse Square
Oxford, MS 386554
662-234-1968
Delta Steak Company (fried green tomatoes)
1007 College Hill Road
Oxford, MS 38655
662-234-0130
Irie on the Square (fried green tomatoes)
122 Courthouse Square
Oxford, MS 38655
662-259-2500
Locals on the Square (fried green tomatoes; also serves fried dill pickles)
309 N. Lamar
Oxford, MS 38655
662-234-9594
Oxford Grillehouse (fried green tomatoes)
114 Courthouse Square
Oxford, MS 38655
662-701-8285
Laurie Triplette is a writer, historian, and accredited appraiser of fine arts, dedicated to preserving Southern culture and foodways. Author of the award-winning community family cookbook GIMME SOME SUGAR, DARLIN’, and editor of ZEBRA TALES (Tailgating Recipes from the Ladies of the NFLRA), Triplette is a member of the Association of Food Journalists (AFJ),Southern Foodways Alliance (SFA) and the Southern Food and Beverage Museum (SOFAB). Check out the GIMME SOME SUGAR, DARLIN’ web site: www.tripleheartpress.com and follow Laurie’s food adventures on Facebook and Twitter (@LaurieTriplette).
Eating Oxford
The Velvet Ditch brings seafood and steady service to Oxford
A new hot spot offering seafood, bar favorites and steady service in a setting that fits both weeknights and game weekends
OXFORD, Miss. — The Velvet Ditch has become a regular stop for people looking for seafood plates, sandwiches and a sports-bar setting near the Oxford Square.
Its menu leans toward familiar items, and the service is one of the reasons diners say they return. The restaurant sits on South Lamar Boulevard, close enough to campus and the Square to draw steady traffic on most nights.
The interior features televisions, open tables and a bar that stays busy during major sporting events. Staff members move between areas at a quick pace.
A visitor can see at a glance that the restaurant is built to handle crowds during football weekends or spring baseball series.
The menu includes catfish, shrimp, burgers and pasta dishes. One food-travel site highlighted the “Catfish with Grits” and the “Lobster Mac and Cheese” as standout items.
Another review praised the staff, noting that a server “went above and beyond to ensure guests had a memorable experience.” Those comments help show why service is often mentioned in accounts from diners.
Guests also mention that the kitchen keeps wait times short. Even on harder nights, food tends to reach tables in a steady rhythm. For people on a schedule, that can be a deciding factor.
Some patrons report that visiting in the early evening brings a quieter atmosphere. Later hours often mean a louder bar setting, especially during games or campus events.
One commenter on social media wrote that the place was “packed” but said staff and management stayed active and remained helpful. That reflects a common pattern in local feedback.
The porch and outdoor seating add to the appeal, especially during fall and spring weather. The spot offers extra room for groups and keeps the dining room from feeling crowded when traffic picks up.
For diners seeking a consistent seafood option that works for friends, families or visitors, The Velvet Ditch meets those expectations without trying to be a fine-dining restaurant.
Most guests seem to accept it as a casual place where they can get reliable favorites.
Menu impressions and pacing
Portion sizes fall on the larger side. Some customers report leaving with leftovers, which adds value for a college-town audience.
Pricing falls within the range expected for a restaurant near the Square, though the seafood dishes push slightly higher than the sandwiches.
Most tables seem to order at least one fried dish. For people choosing wings or fried seafood, asking about crispness is a reasonable step.
One local blog gave the wings a 6.8 out of 10, citing texture but praising the seasoning and service.
It is not unusual for fried items to vary between busy and slow shifts, and guests sometimes adjust their orders based on earlier visits.
Pasta selections, including shrimp-based dishes, tend to draw positive remarks for flavor.
Several diners have shared online comments praising the seasoning balance, which can be harder to maintain in larger kitchens on crowded nights.
Service remains one of the restaurant’s strengths. Reports mention hosts greeting guests quickly and servers keeping check-ins consistent without becoming intrusive.
These basic steps stand out in a setting that often juggles game-day crowds.
The bar area typically fills first. Guests wanting a quieter space may choose tables near the front or the patio. Staff usually offer guidance on where noise levels are lower.
Visitors should expect a mixed crowd. Students, families, alumni and travelers pass through during busy weekends.
The range creates a social atmosphere without shifting the restaurant’s identity into a full bar.
When the pace picks up, the kitchen maintains a workmanlike rhythm. Though the menu is wide enough to challenge any staff during peak hours, food tends to be steady.
This consistency is part of why the restaurant keeps its place among Oxford’s regular dining choices.
Final thoughts
The Velvet Ditch presents itself as a casual dining option that fits Oxford’s blend of campus life and regional visitors.
Diners visiting early in the evening, before louder crowds settle in, often get a more relaxed experience. Later hours tilt toward a sports-bar feel, but service remains attentive.
The restaurant’s strengths lie in its steady approach. It does not try to compete with upscale dining rooms in town.
Instead, it focuses on familiar dishes, efficient service and a setting that suits both weeknight diners and visitors in town for a game.
For people seeking seafood or bar favorites near the Square, The Velvet Ditch offers a dependable choice.
Key takeaways
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The Velvet Ditch delivers steady service and familiar seafood-and-bar dishes near the Oxford Square.
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Early visits offer quieter meals, while later hours bring louder sports-bar energy.
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Portions are large, and service remains a strong point even on busy nights.
Eating Oxford
Captain Morgan’s Pirate Ship Grounds on the Oxford Square for Three Days of Swashbuckling Fun
Captain Morgan’s Pirate Ship drops anchor in Oxford Square for a three-day rum-filled adventure supporting local arts programs.
The Oxford Square is about to get a taste of the high seas as Captain Morgan’s legendary Pirate Ship makes landfall for three days of rum, revelry, and community celebration. The nearly 40-foot vessel will drop anchor right in the heart of downtown, inviting residents and visitors alike to climb aboard for photos, exploration, and a chance to join the pirate crew—if they dare.
The festivities kick off Thursday, November 13, with the Captain Morgan Pirate Pub Crawl, benefitting the Yoknapatawpha Arts Council. The crawl begins with a 7:30 p.m. check-in at The Powerhouse Community Arts Center, where participants will experience the Captain’s Tailgate Tour Ship and enjoy a signature cocktail.
From there, crews will sail through town—stopping at Moe’s Penny Bar, Back Nine, Quack’s, and The Blind Pig Pub—collecting treasure map stamps, stories, and plenty of pirate memories along the way. The night culminates with a grand drawing for a Captain Morgan Yeti Cooler, stocked with spirits and exclusive gear.
The event is free, with donations and drink proceeds directly supporting the Arts Council’s free community arts programs throughout Oxford.
Participants are encouraged to arrive in full pirate regalia for extra raffle entries and bragging rights.
So grab your eyepatch, raise your glass, and prepare to set sail without ever leaving the Square. The Captain Morgan Pirate Ship may be grounded—but the adventure, and the cause it supports, will lift everyone’s spirits.
To learn more, visit www.oxfordarts.com.
Eating Oxford
Lenora’s in Oxford delivers solid Southern fare with attentive service
At Lenora’s Restaurant in Oxford, Mississippi the seafood is fresh, the staff attentive, and dishes like rib eye and catfish stand out
OXFORD, Miss. — At Lenora’s Restaurant in the heart of Oxford, Mississippi, quality doesn’t come from gimmicks or gimmickry.
It’s built from consistency, craft, and the quiet confidence of a kitchen that knows its identity of Southern elegance, balanced by seafood staples and a touch of upscale polish.
A first impression that lasts
Situated at 309 North Lamar Boulevard, just steps away from the Square, Lenora’s manages to create a dining experience that feels elevated without being exclusive.
Soft lighting, rustic wood accents, and an uncluttered layout give the space a comfortable rhythm.
There’s a sense of refinement that doesn’t need to announce itself. It simply exists, welcoming guests into a dining room that suits both quiet conversation and shared celebration.
Tables are well-spaced, and the pace is deliberately calm. From the moment diners walk in, staff are attentive but never overbearing, allowing the experience to unfold at its own tempo.
A menu with depth and purpose
The menu at Lenora’s blends Southern influence with coastal finesse.
The star attractions often lean toward seafood—dishes like the seared catfish Lenora and shrimp pasta Lenora exemplify the restaurant’s commitment to familiar flavors delivered with thoughtful precision.
These dishes arrive hot, well-seasoned, and plated with attention that suggests pride behind the scenes.
Steaks are another strong point. The rib-eye, in particular, arrives with a sear that holds its juices and a side of smashed potatoes that achieves that rare feat of being both comforting and composed.
The mixed grill offerings allow guests to sample a little bit of everything—surf and turf combinations that work in harmony.
Appetizers such as the jumbo lump crab cake and the beef tenderloin skewer serve as a warm welcome to the meal. Meanwhile, seasonal salads, grilled vegetables, and expertly prepared greens round out the plate without feeling like afterthoughts.
Service that elevates the experience
While food often gets top billing in restaurant reviews, the service at Lenora’s deserves its own recognition. Guests routinely highlight the staff’s friendliness and professionalism.
In one recent example, a reviewer praised server Emily S. for being “calm, friendly, and super attentive,” even during a particularly busy evening.
That level of consistency isn’t an accident. The staff—from the front-of-house to the kitchen—operate with clear communication and a shared understanding of what makes for a great dining experience: timing, warmth, and a sense of ease.
Even when the restaurant is bustling on weekends or special occasions, the flow remains steady. Courses arrive at the right intervals, water glasses stay full, and special requests are handled without hesitation.
Finishing strong with dessert and drinks
When it comes to the final course, Lenora’s makes a strong case for lingering just a little longer.
Bread pudding with white chocolate sauce is a standout, offering a warm, rich bite without becoming overly heavy.
Other dessert selections rotate seasonally, giving repeat diners something new to look forward to.
The bar program includes handcrafted cocktails, a curated wine list, and premium spirits, creating an opportunity to extend the evening in relaxed fashion.
Whether it’s a classic old fashioned or a house-infused martini, the drink selection pairs naturally with the pace and style of the meal.
Consistency and craft at the center
Lenora’s isn’t trying to be trendy. It isn’t chasing viral moments or social media flash. What it offers instead is something harder to replicate: a sense of place.
A restaurant that knows who it is, knows what it does well, and delivers on that promise night after night.
It’s this combination of skill in the kitchen, warmth at the table, and ease in the atmosphere that makes Lenora’s a cornerstone of Oxford’s dining scene.
Whether it’s a dinner out with family, a date night, or a business conversation over a meal, Lenora’s fits the moment.
Location and hours of operation
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Address: 309 North Lamar Boulevard, Oxford, Mississippi 38655
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Phone: (662) 236‑1144
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Hours:
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Monday, Tuesday, Thursday: 5:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.
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Wednesday, Friday, Saturday: 5:00 p.m. – 10:30 p.m.
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Sunday: Closed
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Note: On major event weekends, opening hours may shift to 4:00 p.m.
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3 key takeaways
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Southern seafood done right — Signature dishes like the seared catfish and shrimp pasta showcase flavor without overcomplicating.
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Service with care — Staff are consistently described as professional, warm, and attentive, contributing to the calm, composed environment.
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Refined but relaxed — The space strikes a balance between casual comfort and upscale polish, making it accessible to all types of diners.
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March 23, 2015 at 12:50 pm
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