Eating Oxford
Wine Bar: A Realized Dream

Brothers Nelson and Patton Valentine, along with their parents Lee and Helen Valentine and sister Mary Lela, opened the Wine Bar on Aug. 8 this past summer. The Valentine brothers shared their story with us about their family’s love for wine and Oxford that culminated into the Wine Bar.
HottyToddy.com: What inspired y’all to start this venue?
Nelson: Years ago, when my wife Liza and I lived in Atlanta, we frequented a wine bar that was a great spot to stop in grab a glass of wine and some food in a cool atmosphere. The menu was set up to allow you to choose a wine and based on your selection, it recommended a food item that would pair well, and vice versa if you chose a food item first. Over the years, we always talked about how great it would be to have a wine bar in Oxford with my family, but it was always causally and it was never something I thought we would actually do ourselves.
Patton: Then, in September 2013, my family came out to Los Angeles to celebrate my mom’s birthday. During that trip we spent a day at Malibu Wines which is an outdoor wine tasting venue in Malibu where you can bring food and taste wine all day while you listen to live music. While we were there, our family started talking again about how great it would be if Oxford had a wine bar. My Dad then asked if we wanted to look into a little more seriously because he had someone in mind that may be interested in managing it. That person was Kevin Brooks, our current manager. So, while at Malibu Wines (maybe after a few glasses of wine), we agreed to pursue it seriously if Kevin was interested in coming on board.
HottyToddy.com: How did you choose the location?
Nelson: Oxford has always been where we wanted to open The Wine Bar. Our entire family graduated from Ole Miss and we love Oxford so much; we spend as much time in Oxford as possible. With respect to our actual location, I wouldn’t necessarily say we chose the location…luck and great timing played a big part in it. After Kevin decided to come on board, we reached out to a good friend of mine, Ryan Toms, who is in commercial real estate in Oxford. We told him what we were looking for and while we would love to be on the Square (obviously), we would be interested in other options as well. After a couple months and looking at numerous potential locations, we received word from Ryan on a Friday afternoon that there may be a spot opening up on the Square, where Roasted and Emileigh’s were located. One thing led to another and the next day, my Dad and Kevin were in Oxford looking at the location and by Sunday, we were reviewing and signing a lease. We love our location and feel very fortunate to be able to be located on the Oxford Square.
HottyToddy.com Do you participate in choosing the wines or dishes?
Patton: We (Nelson and I) don’t personally participate in choosing the wines or dishes…we leave that to the experts! Kevin, the manager of The Wine Bar, and our executive chef, John Burge, choose the wine and dish selections. They work together to come up with a theme for which both the wine and dish selections are based – for example, we just finished our “West Coast Swing” where we featured wines from the West Coast of the United States along with dishes that complement those wines. We are now transitioning into a new theme and will continue to switch our wine and dish selections throughout the year.
Nelson: We are so fortunate to have our executive chef, John Burge at The Wine Bar. He brings a wealth of knowledge and experience, from his time as a chef in Napa Valley to his time as a wine consultant to his recent experience as executive chef at Lenora’s in Oxford. We told him he had an open slate with respect to the menu and he has far exceeded our expectations. The food at The Wine Bar is amazing! We’re very pleased with the way John and Kevin work together to design a menu where the wine and dishes complement each other so well. Our menu has both tapas style dishes and “shareable entrees” so a guest can come in and order a glass of wine and a tapas dish or two for a snack or they can come in for a full meal by ordering one of our entree options or a few of our tapas options. Our staff will also recommend wines to go with our dishes or recommend a dish to go with a certain wine.
HottyToddy.com Do you know what is the most ordered wine or dish by customers at Wine Bar?
Nelson: Our menu changes often but we do have permanent dishes that will always be on the menu such as our Artisan Cheese Plate, Chicken and Waffle Sliders and Erika’s Reuben Rolls that are the most popular to date. For our home football weekends this year, John has added specials such as a Kobe beef strip, Scallops and a Surf and Turf option which have been extremely popular…we sold out of them each weekend in which they were offered.
Patton: With respect to wine, like our dishes, our wine selection changes often but to date, our most popular wines are La Crema Chardonnay, Meiomi Pinot Noir and the Cline Cashmere GSM. Our specialty cocktails are also very popular, including our Pomegranate Margarita and Brandy Alexander. We have also sold a lot of Sweetwater Blue beer which we have on tap.
The Wine Bar also has weekly specials now. Here is its schedule:

The restaurant is at 401 S. Lamar. For more information visit its website, Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. It also offers bookings from Sunday brunch to Christmas parties. It can be reached at 662-238-3500 to secure a spot, but remember its hours are 4 p.m. to wee hours every night with Mondays off.
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Callie Daniels is the staff reporter for HottyToddy.com. You can email her about this interview at callie.daniels@hottytoddy.com.
Eating Oxford
The Velvet Ditch brings seafood and steady service to Oxford
A new hot spot offering seafood, bar favorites and steady service in a setting that fits both weeknights and game weekends
OXFORD, Miss. — The Velvet Ditch has become a regular stop for people looking for seafood plates, sandwiches and a sports-bar setting near the Oxford Square.
Its menu leans toward familiar items, and the service is one of the reasons diners say they return. The restaurant sits on South Lamar Boulevard, close enough to campus and the Square to draw steady traffic on most nights.
The interior features televisions, open tables and a bar that stays busy during major sporting events. Staff members move between areas at a quick pace.
A visitor can see at a glance that the restaurant is built to handle crowds during football weekends or spring baseball series.
The menu includes catfish, shrimp, burgers and pasta dishes. One food-travel site highlighted the “Catfish with Grits” and the “Lobster Mac and Cheese” as standout items.
Another review praised the staff, noting that a server “went above and beyond to ensure guests had a memorable experience.” Those comments help show why service is often mentioned in accounts from diners.
Guests also mention that the kitchen keeps wait times short. Even on harder nights, food tends to reach tables in a steady rhythm. For people on a schedule, that can be a deciding factor.
Some patrons report that visiting in the early evening brings a quieter atmosphere. Later hours often mean a louder bar setting, especially during games or campus events.
One commenter on social media wrote that the place was “packed” but said staff and management stayed active and remained helpful. That reflects a common pattern in local feedback.
The porch and outdoor seating add to the appeal, especially during fall and spring weather. The spot offers extra room for groups and keeps the dining room from feeling crowded when traffic picks up.
For diners seeking a consistent seafood option that works for friends, families or visitors, The Velvet Ditch meets those expectations without trying to be a fine-dining restaurant.
Most guests seem to accept it as a casual place where they can get reliable favorites.
Menu impressions and pacing
Portion sizes fall on the larger side. Some customers report leaving with leftovers, which adds value for a college-town audience.
Pricing falls within the range expected for a restaurant near the Square, though the seafood dishes push slightly higher than the sandwiches.
Most tables seem to order at least one fried dish. For people choosing wings or fried seafood, asking about crispness is a reasonable step.
One local blog gave the wings a 6.8 out of 10, citing texture but praising the seasoning and service.
It is not unusual for fried items to vary between busy and slow shifts, and guests sometimes adjust their orders based on earlier visits.
Pasta selections, including shrimp-based dishes, tend to draw positive remarks for flavor.
Several diners have shared online comments praising the seasoning balance, which can be harder to maintain in larger kitchens on crowded nights.
Service remains one of the restaurant’s strengths. Reports mention hosts greeting guests quickly and servers keeping check-ins consistent without becoming intrusive.
These basic steps stand out in a setting that often juggles game-day crowds.
The bar area typically fills first. Guests wanting a quieter space may choose tables near the front or the patio. Staff usually offer guidance on where noise levels are lower.
Visitors should expect a mixed crowd. Students, families, alumni and travelers pass through during busy weekends.
The range creates a social atmosphere without shifting the restaurant’s identity into a full bar.
When the pace picks up, the kitchen maintains a workmanlike rhythm. Though the menu is wide enough to challenge any staff during peak hours, food tends to be steady.
This consistency is part of why the restaurant keeps its place among Oxford’s regular dining choices.
Final thoughts
The Velvet Ditch presents itself as a casual dining option that fits Oxford’s blend of campus life and regional visitors.
Diners visiting early in the evening, before louder crowds settle in, often get a more relaxed experience. Later hours tilt toward a sports-bar feel, but service remains attentive.
The restaurant’s strengths lie in its steady approach. It does not try to compete with upscale dining rooms in town.
Instead, it focuses on familiar dishes, efficient service and a setting that suits both weeknight diners and visitors in town for a game.
For people seeking seafood or bar favorites near the Square, The Velvet Ditch offers a dependable choice.
Key takeaways
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The Velvet Ditch delivers steady service and familiar seafood-and-bar dishes near the Oxford Square.
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Early visits offer quieter meals, while later hours bring louder sports-bar energy.
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Portions are large, and service remains a strong point even on busy nights.
Eating Oxford
Captain Morgan’s Pirate Ship Grounds on the Oxford Square for Three Days of Swashbuckling Fun
Captain Morgan’s Pirate Ship drops anchor in Oxford Square for a three-day rum-filled adventure supporting local arts programs.
The Oxford Square is about to get a taste of the high seas as Captain Morgan’s legendary Pirate Ship makes landfall for three days of rum, revelry, and community celebration. The nearly 40-foot vessel will drop anchor right in the heart of downtown, inviting residents and visitors alike to climb aboard for photos, exploration, and a chance to join the pirate crew—if they dare.
The festivities kick off Thursday, November 13, with the Captain Morgan Pirate Pub Crawl, benefitting the Yoknapatawpha Arts Council. The crawl begins with a 7:30 p.m. check-in at The Powerhouse Community Arts Center, where participants will experience the Captain’s Tailgate Tour Ship and enjoy a signature cocktail.
From there, crews will sail through town—stopping at Moe’s Penny Bar, Back Nine, Quack’s, and The Blind Pig Pub—collecting treasure map stamps, stories, and plenty of pirate memories along the way. The night culminates with a grand drawing for a Captain Morgan Yeti Cooler, stocked with spirits and exclusive gear.
The event is free, with donations and drink proceeds directly supporting the Arts Council’s free community arts programs throughout Oxford.
Participants are encouraged to arrive in full pirate regalia for extra raffle entries and bragging rights.
So grab your eyepatch, raise your glass, and prepare to set sail without ever leaving the Square. The Captain Morgan Pirate Ship may be grounded—but the adventure, and the cause it supports, will lift everyone’s spirits.
To learn more, visit www.oxfordarts.com.
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Lenora’s in Oxford delivers solid Southern fare with attentive service
At Lenora’s Restaurant in Oxford, Mississippi the seafood is fresh, the staff attentive, and dishes like rib eye and catfish stand out
OXFORD, Miss. — At Lenora’s Restaurant in the heart of Oxford, Mississippi, quality doesn’t come from gimmicks or gimmickry.
It’s built from consistency, craft, and the quiet confidence of a kitchen that knows its identity of Southern elegance, balanced by seafood staples and a touch of upscale polish.
A first impression that lasts
Situated at 309 North Lamar Boulevard, just steps away from the Square, Lenora’s manages to create a dining experience that feels elevated without being exclusive.
Soft lighting, rustic wood accents, and an uncluttered layout give the space a comfortable rhythm.
There’s a sense of refinement that doesn’t need to announce itself. It simply exists, welcoming guests into a dining room that suits both quiet conversation and shared celebration.
Tables are well-spaced, and the pace is deliberately calm. From the moment diners walk in, staff are attentive but never overbearing, allowing the experience to unfold at its own tempo.
A menu with depth and purpose
The menu at Lenora’s blends Southern influence with coastal finesse.
The star attractions often lean toward seafood—dishes like the seared catfish Lenora and shrimp pasta Lenora exemplify the restaurant’s commitment to familiar flavors delivered with thoughtful precision.
These dishes arrive hot, well-seasoned, and plated with attention that suggests pride behind the scenes.
Steaks are another strong point. The rib-eye, in particular, arrives with a sear that holds its juices and a side of smashed potatoes that achieves that rare feat of being both comforting and composed.
The mixed grill offerings allow guests to sample a little bit of everything—surf and turf combinations that work in harmony.
Appetizers such as the jumbo lump crab cake and the beef tenderloin skewer serve as a warm welcome to the meal. Meanwhile, seasonal salads, grilled vegetables, and expertly prepared greens round out the plate without feeling like afterthoughts.
Service that elevates the experience
While food often gets top billing in restaurant reviews, the service at Lenora’s deserves its own recognition. Guests routinely highlight the staff’s friendliness and professionalism.
In one recent example, a reviewer praised server Emily S. for being “calm, friendly, and super attentive,” even during a particularly busy evening.
That level of consistency isn’t an accident. The staff—from the front-of-house to the kitchen—operate with clear communication and a shared understanding of what makes for a great dining experience: timing, warmth, and a sense of ease.
Even when the restaurant is bustling on weekends or special occasions, the flow remains steady. Courses arrive at the right intervals, water glasses stay full, and special requests are handled without hesitation.
Finishing strong with dessert and drinks
When it comes to the final course, Lenora’s makes a strong case for lingering just a little longer.
Bread pudding with white chocolate sauce is a standout, offering a warm, rich bite without becoming overly heavy.
Other dessert selections rotate seasonally, giving repeat diners something new to look forward to.
The bar program includes handcrafted cocktails, a curated wine list, and premium spirits, creating an opportunity to extend the evening in relaxed fashion.
Whether it’s a classic old fashioned or a house-infused martini, the drink selection pairs naturally with the pace and style of the meal.
Consistency and craft at the center
Lenora’s isn’t trying to be trendy. It isn’t chasing viral moments or social media flash. What it offers instead is something harder to replicate: a sense of place.
A restaurant that knows who it is, knows what it does well, and delivers on that promise night after night.
It’s this combination of skill in the kitchen, warmth at the table, and ease in the atmosphere that makes Lenora’s a cornerstone of Oxford’s dining scene.
Whether it’s a dinner out with family, a date night, or a business conversation over a meal, Lenora’s fits the moment.
Location and hours of operation
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Address: 309 North Lamar Boulevard, Oxford, Mississippi 38655
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Phone: (662) 236‑1144
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Hours:
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Monday, Tuesday, Thursday: 5:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.
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Wednesday, Friday, Saturday: 5:00 p.m. – 10:30 p.m.
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Sunday: Closed
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Note: On major event weekends, opening hours may shift to 4:00 p.m.
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3 key takeaways
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Southern seafood done right — Signature dishes like the seared catfish and shrimp pasta showcase flavor without overcomplicating.
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Service with care — Staff are consistently described as professional, warm, and attentive, contributing to the calm, composed environment.
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Refined but relaxed — The space strikes a balance between casual comfort and upscale polish, making it accessible to all types of diners.
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