Eating Oxford
An American in Paris: Why French Folk Don’t Get Fat and Other Musings
SOUTHERNISM OF THE WEEK
Lagniappe: A little something extra thrown in for good measure. An expression peculiar to the Deep South, where French and Spanish colonization once ruled.
For the past few days, I have been An American in Paris. It’s been a time spent contemplating philosophical, gastronomic and aesthetic issues.
We Americans tend to have an uneasy relationship with our European and Asian counterparts. After all, it was the old world and old ways many of our North American settlers fled in search of new beginnings, like immigrants have been doing since Adam and Eve were kicked out of the Garden of Eden. We take a sheepish pride in our general inability to speak anything but American plus a teensy weensy bit of Tex-Mex or Cajun Vietnamese or Godfather Italian.
For those of us with deep roots in deepest Dixie, visiting the “Old Country” feels like a bit of déjà vu all over again (love ya, Yogi Berra). The end-of-summer garden flowers, the foods, the humidity, even the mingled scents wafting in the misty breezes here in Paris, all seem vaguely familiar to me.
I’ve seen nary a glimpse of Gene Kelly or Leslie Caron strolling along the Champs Elysee. I haven’t heard any Gershwin music tinkling out of bistros, although French accordion panhandlers populate the Metro trains like jazz musicians hustling in the French Quarter in NOLA. Nor have I glimpsed the Pink Panther or Inspector Clouseau. But I’ve walked past the philatelic stalls that set the stage in the movie Charade. I’ve ridden up the Eiffel Tower elevators to view a spectacular sunset as the lights of Paris twinkled on, and my long suffering husband and I have wandered the quais along the Seine.
I’ve visited the obligatory tourist sites as well as some not so obligatory. A day at the Louvres reminded me of why I love art history and why so many American collections of the Old Masters works cannot ever compare to those amassed by heads of state during the days when the painters actually created them: There’s just not enough money in the world to buy it now, even if the buyer had access to enough first-rate material in the marketplace. I remain ever grateful to the Monuments Men and their colleagues.
A day visiting Versailles reminded me of why working people have risen up time and time again against inequality. FYI, there is such as thing as over-gilding the lily. A morning pilgrimage to the Paris Holocaust Museum made me grateful for my father’s French Jewish ancestors who made their way to America and had the privilege of fighting Nazis instead of being gassed like kinsmen shipped to Auschwitz during the last French roundup in 1944.
And I’ve enjoyed the food.
Addicted during my preteen years to Julia Child and her “Learning the Art of French Cooking,” and having apprenticed over a Creole cooking pot under the guidance of my father, I remain fascinated by the breadth and elegant simplicity of French cookery.
French cuisine of everyday life is not the stereotype of heavy sauces or contorted stacks of disparate components. Instead, it consists of layers of the freshest of ingredients, usually held together with light flavorings. Farm-to-table is a concept that never went out of fashion in France. Packaged and processed are curse words when mentioned with regard to food.
Popular French writer Mireille Guiliano was onto something in 2004 when she wrote French Women Don’t Get Fat after returning overweight from a year-long visit to the United States.
She had to re-learn her French foodways in order to lose the weight. She developed a food philosophy in the process that has been adopted by millions and sold an equal number of books. (See mireilleguiliano.com)
Guiliano’s concept, which melted away her American poundage, is simple:
- Eat regularly three times a day at the same time
- Control the portion sizes
- Do not restrict foods, but rather, combine them in a variety that relies heavily on fresh fruits, vegetables, nuts, fish, and whole grains
- Consume wine and champagne, but stay away from distilled spirits
- Eat yogurt
- Eat sweets, but sparingly
- Walk a lot and do muscle toning for weight training (Hint: Cans of soup make perfect weights)
- Drink lots of water throughout the day
- Relax over the meals
Everywhere we visited during our French sojourn, the concept ruled. Every serving of foie gras, the cheese board selections with crusty bread, and even the entrees and the desserts looked tiny compared to our typical American big-gulp sizes. Yet the combinations of many different flavors at a single sitting invariably left us more than satisfied.
Our first night in Paris, Hubby and I experienced the tasting menu of our boutique hotel’s young chef. The seven “courses” consisted of single dishes. They ranged from an amuse bouche consisting of a one-inch circle of fresh mint-leaf sorbet wrapped in spun sugar, to roasted squab (the fancy French term for pigeon) marinated for 48 hours in miso and cocoa. Note: That pigeon didn’t taste like chicken.
Each small but savory dish was carefully constructed to provide an explosion of flavors of delicately balanced fresh herbs and butter, mirepoix or Demi glacé, and the freshest of olive oils. Our Southern Foodways Alliance would have been proud.
By the sixth dish, this dame had to push away the plate, unfinished, albeit still desired… No “must eat every bite” guilt could prevail. The sensation of satiety was like that at the end of a family reunion potluck.
The grand finale consisted of a row of four perfectly formed inch-square sweet brioches so petite that only Ratatouille could have formed them. The minimalist white porcelain board of sweet bread came with another porcelain plate brushed with a thin skin of melted chocolate for dipping the brioches.
About as far from Cinnabon as one could get, those chocolatey mini-brioches nevertheless provided equivalent satisfaction in each bite.
I’ve taken to heart the “French Girls don’t Get Fat” approach to cooking and dining and fully intend to execute the concept when I get home. Meanwhile, there’s Vienna to conquer. They’re known for pastries and coffee and chocolate, three of the essential girl food groups.
Some days it’s just good to be the king.
MAKE A SIMPLE MEAL, THE FRENCH WAY
MUSHROOM DUXELLES DELIGHT
Duxelles is a classic French paste that may be eaten as a spread, or used as a filling for stuffed veggies, or served as a condiment or platform for grilled fish or meat. Everyone should master this basic recipe, which freezes well for future use. Our chef topped a plate of Duxelles with thin-sliced mushrooms to be eaten as a stand-alone appetizer.
8-oz pkg white mushrooms
2 small shallots or 1 small sweet onion, chopped fine
1 garlic clove, minced
¾ c coarse salt, divided ¼ and ½
1 T fine-chopped flat-leaf parsley
Juice of 1 fresh lemon (about 2 T)
1/8 tsp black pepper
2-3 large mushrooms, sliced thin vertically
Sprig of watercress for decoration
Toasted walnuts
Fresh crusty bread
Reserve two to three of the most perfect mushrooms. Slice them paper thin vertically and set aside. Chop remaining mushrooms fine, stems and all. Clean and fine-chop the shallots or sweet onion and measure out about a fourth of a cup for this recipe.
Sauté the onion or shallots and garlic with first salt in butter. As they begin to soften, add the chopped mushrooms and simmer until the mushrooms release their liquid. Stir in second salt, parsley and lemon juice. Simmer until liquid reduces and the mixture becomes thick. Remove from heat.
Spread paste in a small dish or on a small plate. Top with a single layer of thin-sliced mushrooms and a sprig of greenery. Serve with a few toasted walnuts and crusty bread.
Laurie Triplette is a writer, historian and accredited appraiser of fine arts, dedicated to preserving Southern culture and foodways. Author of the award-winning community family cookbook GIMME SOME SUGAR, DARLIN’, and editor of ZEBRA TALES (Tailgating Recipes from the Ladies of the NFLRA), Triplette is a member of the Association of Food Journalists, Southern Foodways Alliance and the Southern Food and Beverage Museum. Check out the GIMME SOME SUGAR, DARLIN’ website and follow Laurie’s food adventures on Facebook and Twitter.
Eating Oxford
The Velvet Ditch brings seafood and steady service to Oxford
A new hot spot offering seafood, bar favorites and steady service in a setting that fits both weeknights and game weekends
OXFORD, Miss. — The Velvet Ditch has become a regular stop for people looking for seafood plates, sandwiches and a sports-bar setting near the Oxford Square.
Its menu leans toward familiar items, and the service is one of the reasons diners say they return. The restaurant sits on South Lamar Boulevard, close enough to campus and the Square to draw steady traffic on most nights.
The interior features televisions, open tables and a bar that stays busy during major sporting events. Staff members move between areas at a quick pace.
A visitor can see at a glance that the restaurant is built to handle crowds during football weekends or spring baseball series.
The menu includes catfish, shrimp, burgers and pasta dishes. One food-travel site highlighted the “Catfish with Grits” and the “Lobster Mac and Cheese” as standout items.
Another review praised the staff, noting that a server “went above and beyond to ensure guests had a memorable experience.” Those comments help show why service is often mentioned in accounts from diners.
Guests also mention that the kitchen keeps wait times short. Even on harder nights, food tends to reach tables in a steady rhythm. For people on a schedule, that can be a deciding factor.
Some patrons report that visiting in the early evening brings a quieter atmosphere. Later hours often mean a louder bar setting, especially during games or campus events.
One commenter on social media wrote that the place was “packed” but said staff and management stayed active and remained helpful. That reflects a common pattern in local feedback.
The porch and outdoor seating add to the appeal, especially during fall and spring weather. The spot offers extra room for groups and keeps the dining room from feeling crowded when traffic picks up.
For diners seeking a consistent seafood option that works for friends, families or visitors, The Velvet Ditch meets those expectations without trying to be a fine-dining restaurant.
Most guests seem to accept it as a casual place where they can get reliable favorites.
Menu impressions and pacing
Portion sizes fall on the larger side. Some customers report leaving with leftovers, which adds value for a college-town audience.
Pricing falls within the range expected for a restaurant near the Square, though the seafood dishes push slightly higher than the sandwiches.
Most tables seem to order at least one fried dish. For people choosing wings or fried seafood, asking about crispness is a reasonable step.
One local blog gave the wings a 6.8 out of 10, citing texture but praising the seasoning and service.
It is not unusual for fried items to vary between busy and slow shifts, and guests sometimes adjust their orders based on earlier visits.
Pasta selections, including shrimp-based dishes, tend to draw positive remarks for flavor.
Several diners have shared online comments praising the seasoning balance, which can be harder to maintain in larger kitchens on crowded nights.
Service remains one of the restaurant’s strengths. Reports mention hosts greeting guests quickly and servers keeping check-ins consistent without becoming intrusive.
These basic steps stand out in a setting that often juggles game-day crowds.
The bar area typically fills first. Guests wanting a quieter space may choose tables near the front or the patio. Staff usually offer guidance on where noise levels are lower.
Visitors should expect a mixed crowd. Students, families, alumni and travelers pass through during busy weekends.
The range creates a social atmosphere without shifting the restaurant’s identity into a full bar.
When the pace picks up, the kitchen maintains a workmanlike rhythm. Though the menu is wide enough to challenge any staff during peak hours, food tends to be steady.
This consistency is part of why the restaurant keeps its place among Oxford’s regular dining choices.
Final thoughts
The Velvet Ditch presents itself as a casual dining option that fits Oxford’s blend of campus life and regional visitors.
Diners visiting early in the evening, before louder crowds settle in, often get a more relaxed experience. Later hours tilt toward a sports-bar feel, but service remains attentive.
The restaurant’s strengths lie in its steady approach. It does not try to compete with upscale dining rooms in town.
Instead, it focuses on familiar dishes, efficient service and a setting that suits both weeknight diners and visitors in town for a game.
For people seeking seafood or bar favorites near the Square, The Velvet Ditch offers a dependable choice.
Key takeaways
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The Velvet Ditch delivers steady service and familiar seafood-and-bar dishes near the Oxford Square.
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Early visits offer quieter meals, while later hours bring louder sports-bar energy.
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Portions are large, and service remains a strong point even on busy nights.
Eating Oxford
Captain Morgan’s Pirate Ship Grounds on the Oxford Square for Three Days of Swashbuckling Fun
Captain Morgan’s Pirate Ship drops anchor in Oxford Square for a three-day rum-filled adventure supporting local arts programs.
The Oxford Square is about to get a taste of the high seas as Captain Morgan’s legendary Pirate Ship makes landfall for three days of rum, revelry, and community celebration. The nearly 40-foot vessel will drop anchor right in the heart of downtown, inviting residents and visitors alike to climb aboard for photos, exploration, and a chance to join the pirate crew—if they dare.
The festivities kick off Thursday, November 13, with the Captain Morgan Pirate Pub Crawl, benefitting the Yoknapatawpha Arts Council. The crawl begins with a 7:30 p.m. check-in at The Powerhouse Community Arts Center, where participants will experience the Captain’s Tailgate Tour Ship and enjoy a signature cocktail.
From there, crews will sail through town—stopping at Moe’s Penny Bar, Back Nine, Quack’s, and The Blind Pig Pub—collecting treasure map stamps, stories, and plenty of pirate memories along the way. The night culminates with a grand drawing for a Captain Morgan Yeti Cooler, stocked with spirits and exclusive gear.
The event is free, with donations and drink proceeds directly supporting the Arts Council’s free community arts programs throughout Oxford.
Participants are encouraged to arrive in full pirate regalia for extra raffle entries and bragging rights.
So grab your eyepatch, raise your glass, and prepare to set sail without ever leaving the Square. The Captain Morgan Pirate Ship may be grounded—but the adventure, and the cause it supports, will lift everyone’s spirits.
To learn more, visit www.oxfordarts.com.
Eating Oxford
Lenora’s in Oxford delivers solid Southern fare with attentive service
At Lenora’s Restaurant in Oxford, Mississippi the seafood is fresh, the staff attentive, and dishes like rib eye and catfish stand out
OXFORD, Miss. — At Lenora’s Restaurant in the heart of Oxford, Mississippi, quality doesn’t come from gimmicks or gimmickry.
It’s built from consistency, craft, and the quiet confidence of a kitchen that knows its identity of Southern elegance, balanced by seafood staples and a touch of upscale polish.
A first impression that lasts
Situated at 309 North Lamar Boulevard, just steps away from the Square, Lenora’s manages to create a dining experience that feels elevated without being exclusive.
Soft lighting, rustic wood accents, and an uncluttered layout give the space a comfortable rhythm.
There’s a sense of refinement that doesn’t need to announce itself. It simply exists, welcoming guests into a dining room that suits both quiet conversation and shared celebration.
Tables are well-spaced, and the pace is deliberately calm. From the moment diners walk in, staff are attentive but never overbearing, allowing the experience to unfold at its own tempo.
A menu with depth and purpose
The menu at Lenora’s blends Southern influence with coastal finesse.
The star attractions often lean toward seafood—dishes like the seared catfish Lenora and shrimp pasta Lenora exemplify the restaurant’s commitment to familiar flavors delivered with thoughtful precision.
These dishes arrive hot, well-seasoned, and plated with attention that suggests pride behind the scenes.
Steaks are another strong point. The rib-eye, in particular, arrives with a sear that holds its juices and a side of smashed potatoes that achieves that rare feat of being both comforting and composed.
The mixed grill offerings allow guests to sample a little bit of everything—surf and turf combinations that work in harmony.
Appetizers such as the jumbo lump crab cake and the beef tenderloin skewer serve as a warm welcome to the meal. Meanwhile, seasonal salads, grilled vegetables, and expertly prepared greens round out the plate without feeling like afterthoughts.
Service that elevates the experience
While food often gets top billing in restaurant reviews, the service at Lenora’s deserves its own recognition. Guests routinely highlight the staff’s friendliness and professionalism.
In one recent example, a reviewer praised server Emily S. for being “calm, friendly, and super attentive,” even during a particularly busy evening.
That level of consistency isn’t an accident. The staff—from the front-of-house to the kitchen—operate with clear communication and a shared understanding of what makes for a great dining experience: timing, warmth, and a sense of ease.
Even when the restaurant is bustling on weekends or special occasions, the flow remains steady. Courses arrive at the right intervals, water glasses stay full, and special requests are handled without hesitation.
Finishing strong with dessert and drinks
When it comes to the final course, Lenora’s makes a strong case for lingering just a little longer.
Bread pudding with white chocolate sauce is a standout, offering a warm, rich bite without becoming overly heavy.
Other dessert selections rotate seasonally, giving repeat diners something new to look forward to.
The bar program includes handcrafted cocktails, a curated wine list, and premium spirits, creating an opportunity to extend the evening in relaxed fashion.
Whether it’s a classic old fashioned or a house-infused martini, the drink selection pairs naturally with the pace and style of the meal.
Consistency and craft at the center
Lenora’s isn’t trying to be trendy. It isn’t chasing viral moments or social media flash. What it offers instead is something harder to replicate: a sense of place.
A restaurant that knows who it is, knows what it does well, and delivers on that promise night after night.
It’s this combination of skill in the kitchen, warmth at the table, and ease in the atmosphere that makes Lenora’s a cornerstone of Oxford’s dining scene.
Whether it’s a dinner out with family, a date night, or a business conversation over a meal, Lenora’s fits the moment.
Location and hours of operation
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Address: 309 North Lamar Boulevard, Oxford, Mississippi 38655
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Phone: (662) 236‑1144
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Hours:
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Monday, Tuesday, Thursday: 5:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.
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Wednesday, Friday, Saturday: 5:00 p.m. – 10:30 p.m.
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Sunday: Closed
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Note: On major event weekends, opening hours may shift to 4:00 p.m.
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3 key takeaways
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Southern seafood done right — Signature dishes like the seared catfish and shrimp pasta showcase flavor without overcomplicating.
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Service with care — Staff are consistently described as professional, warm, and attentive, contributing to the calm, composed environment.
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Refined but relaxed — The space strikes a balance between casual comfort and upscale polish, making it accessible to all types of diners.
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